Is He Happy at school?

One of the most exciting thing for a mother is when listening your child babbling about school and friends. This is clearly a good sign, because it will automatically tell parents can know the condition of the child at school.

And what about those not? Because not all children want to tell her experience when at school. In fact, although he was still a child, did not rule out also keeps the little problem of ‘complicated’ and ‘heavy’ in school. Whether with his classmates, senior or maybe even a teacher.

Well, if you want to know, Do your child is happy or not in school or not. Consider the following signs:

Afraid to go to school for the first time is normal. However, if your child complains abdominal pain every school and heard the word when going off from school. Even the complaints occurred repeatedly and continues, then this is a serious problem. That is, the place to learn it was there that made him fear, anxiety and discomfort.

Showed little reaction to anxiety, such as along the way to school, your child shows an unusual manner, such as nail biting, thumb sucking, playing and pulling hair, crying for no reason and even incontinence. Parents need to understand if this reaction occurs because there is something that makes your child feel threatened.

Your child did not want to discuss anything related at school. The simplest example is that he did not want to do homework, or anything related to the school.

What should yo do?

Immediately communicate with your child. Try to talk about what happened at the school on a regular basis. Even if you need to do every day. Select the appropriate time to discuss it. As before dinner, during dinner, while relaxing or other appropriate time according for you. Be sure to start with questions mild and pleasant.

Make Your child to continue to talk and do not stop until their answer a ‘flat’ and not ‘in’. Try to ask questions that can not be answered with one or two words. Try to give him telling question at length. Ask him, the events that have occurred in schools, both pleasant and make him sad.

Try to establish rapport with the class teacher. When children have problems with the environment at the school, teachers were usually see for the first time.