Basic Parenting – Give Children Education

“When I have my first child, I have little fear. Probably, the same fear experienced by other mothers. It’s the fear that can not educate children properly.” Wulan said her story (30).

Have you ever felt the same fear as Wulan? The wise man said, the greatest job in the world is raising children.  Thats why parenting topic always interesting. A child is not enough just filled with clothing and food, but also need to provide with another thing, such as providing a good education formal and informal.

If the parents educate their children well, it will produce well-behaved child. And vice versa. Well, that’s why some rules needed in educating children, so the children future going to be more better and make their parents proud.

So whats the rule??
1.       Positive environment can form child has a self-confident. Each parent actions today, will influence their child’s mental development tomorrow. It is recommended parents always keep a good attitude, great caution to the voice tone, body language and facial expressions

2.       Give praise to the child. Some praise can be an award to children, so will make your child feel proud to be able to do something independently.

3.       Do not ever compare your child with another child, because this will make them feel inferior and useless.

4.       Avoid bad statement to children, such as “You Stupid!” or “Do not be such a baby!” Believe me, bad comments will always be attached to the child. Try to make sure your child understand that every person can make mistakes, including her. But it will not detract at all your love to him even if you do not like his behavior.

5.       Children will usually learn to behave from their parents. That is why it is recommended that any parent think first what to do. For example, if your anger, you will strike, so do not be surprised if your child is angry at his friend he would have the same tendency with you, which is hit. Now teach your children to respect, solidarity, honesty, good attitude, like tolerance and not selfish.

6.       In line with the age and mental development of children, try to change the way of educating. Be flexible parents!

7.       Realize thats no parent is perfect in this world, including you. As a human you also have strengths and weaknesses. So get to know your abilities and your partner.

There you go, hopefully this parenting tips can help you rais your children well.