Age appropriate

At toddler age, children are still overcome with annoyance of beloved animals. At this age children also did not understand exactly how to treat the animals. So they often touch or hold it too hard. sometimes by plucking and interesting animal fur. Well, this is sometimes makes the animals became angry and then attack or injure children.

That is why, the most recommended age for having a pet is a pre-school age, about  7  to 10 years. At this age children are able to express themselves to pets. Like love, hugging, happy, sad Aeven if the pet dies. Even when the child has reached the age of 10 years, they could given the responsibility of taking care of animals. Begin feeding, cleaning cages and bathing.

Choosing animals

Although the role of parents is required when election pets for children. However, the child should remain involved to determine what animal he wanted. Should select an animal that is safe, no harm, not poisonous and not potentially attacked the owner. But most important note is to find out beforehand whether your baby has allergies, so there are some animals that are not recommended.

* Select the animal does not like to bite. For example, rabbits and cats. Choose the type of cat benign like Persian. But, if the child is allergic,get away from this race because of long-haired. If you choose a dog, choose a good character. There are certain races (such as golden retrievers) will hit the stand silent. But avoid the little dog that is not easy to slam the child.
* For future pet does not transmit the disease, should keep the good health of animals. That is why, pets also need to get the vaccine, given de-worming, flea-free, hair care, teeth, ears, and nails regularly.

Important note

Although the baby has a pet which has become his friend now, socializing with outsiders must remain to be done. Do not let your pet into the child’s imaginary friend, so he did not have another playmate.

If your child is bitten by a pet you must have to do is to immediately wash the bite wound and then drain and provide antiseptic. If the bite is to quickly bring the wide wound to the doctor.zz

And what about those not? Because not all children want to tell her experience when at school. In fact, although he was still a child, did not rule out also keeps the little problem of ‘complicated’ and ‘heavy’ in school. Whether with his classmates, senior or maybe even a teacher.

Well, if you want to know, Do your child is happy or not in school or not. Consider the following signs:

Afraid to go to school for the first time is normal. However, if your child complains abdominal pain every school and heard the word when going off from school. Even the complaints occurred repeatedly and continues, then this is a serious problem. That is, the place to learn it was there that made him fear, anxiety and discomfort.

Showed little reaction to anxiety, such as along the way to school, your child shows an unusual manner, such as nail biting, thumb sucking, playing and pulling hair, crying for no reason and even incontinence. Parents need to understand if this reaction occurs because there is something that makes your child feel threatened.

Your child did not want to discuss anything related at school. The simplest example is that he did not want to do homework, or anything related to the school.

What should yo do?

Immediately communicate with your child. Try to talk about what happened at the school on a regular basis. Even if you need to do every day. Select the appropriate time to discuss it. As before dinner, during dinner, while relaxing or other appropriate time according for you. Be sure to start with questions mild and pleasant.

Make Your child to continue to talk and do not stop until their answer a ‘flat’ and not ‘in’. Try to ask questions that can not be answered with one or two words. Try to give him telling question at length. Ask him, the events that have occurred in schools, both pleasant and make him sad.

Try to establish rapport with the class teacher. When children have problems with the environment at the school, teachers were usually see for the first time.

Zoo

Bring all your family to spend your holiday at the zoo. Visit each of the animal cages and test your child’s knowledge about all types of animals. Here the child is not only able to see the animals but also will get more knowledge about how to save, maintain and propociate endangered animals. Let them do the activities they like.

Children are usually small really like if he could pet fluffy animals. While his brother tend to prefer listening to stories from the expert zoologist, about the life and habits that made the wild animals.

Museum

Satisfy curiosity by visiting the small museum. In this place you can introduce more about the history of culture and historical objects with the child. By visiting the small museum they will have more value to get the elements of education and culture high value. Make sure when you visit the museum accompanied by a guide to your child get more knowledge about the history of the written summary of the museum. The atmosphere will be more interesting when you visit the museum with the family that was serving the object and the spectacle of life that makes direct visitors and seemed to blend in the midst of cultural life.

In addition to the museum you can also take the little scientific resorts where children can see the stars and constellations / constellations.

Watch live sporting events

Encourage your child’s interest in the sport. This time for the holidays, it would not hurt if invite all family members to watch live sporting events. Choose your favorite sports and family support team player or your mainstay. While watching, do not forget to bring snacks like nuts or a burger and drink. Do not be ashamed to shout at the players or teams scored points mainstay, it will make the atmosphere even more fun to watch.

Favorite artist concert

Favorite singer or band baby dropped your city? Let your child happy with him to a concert singer / band that his/her favorite. Perhaps you will find it hard to hunt for tickets, but you will feel satisfied if they succeed to get it and deserve to be “Parent of the Year” for them. But if your business does not work, search for other alternatives. See the agenda that usually play there in one newspaper page and find a place anywhere that displays the arts and cultural performances, such as drama performances, dance, theater, poetry, painting exhibitions and film shows.

Camping

Let’s get your child to learn more about nature. Invite them to camp. Do not forget to take medicines, tents, blankets, lamps, and other purposes. If it is not possible to travel long distances to camp, you can do it in your yard. Do you want your camp atmosphere more fun and exciting?

Sitting around the fire and burn sausage or meat, tell spooky stories to children. Or you can take your child to guess and identify animal sounds. By the bed, spread out sleeping bags outside the tent, then take your child lying in the light of dim stars.

Recreational Park

Who would not like a recreation park? This is the most favorite place of children. They can enjoy playing a fun atmosphere with a little spacecraft challenging game of courage.

Movies

The weather was not friendly, so your baby can not going out? Do not let the weather hinder little vacation. Create fun activities that can entertain your baby at home. Watching is one activity that could be a choice, especially if you could watch our favorite characters in a wide screen. If you have a projector, put up in the family room and invite your child to watch her favorite movie. Guaranteed they’ll love it. If you’re bored with the house and a normal cinema, now there are some places that provide Mini / Private Theater. Here you can enjoy a relaxed atmosphere while watching your favorite movies with the food and beverage company that has served small and sat on the couch like a private cinema with exclusive impression.

Causing  Factors:

1. Parents and Parenting

Parenting is a powerful influence on a child’s emotional level and how he acted. You as a parent is a role model for him. Therefore, be careful of being and acting to anyone, whether to family members or others. Do not let you missed so your child see and imitate your behave that you might not realize rude to others.

2. External environment

The environment around the home or at school also take a major role in shaping the character of children.

3. Media

Some types of media such as television and computers can influence child development. Forms of violence and insults words that appeared in various television shows and other media to enrich the vocabulary and little bad behavior.

4. Food

Probably many people doesn’t know if  food can also trigger emotional development of children. Foods with added chemicals, preservatives and harmful substances believed to be a little temperamental.

Solution:

* Give your child examples of good behavior so he can imitate it. Start from the nearest environment, the family.
* Talk to your child heart to heart about the rude behavior. Embed him that speaking harshly and cursing is not a good and should be done. Remind him constantly with how smooth and soft without being angry and judgmental.
* Give understanding and agreement about what will be accepted and be consequences if he still said roughly.
* Give praise or reward if he managed to control his emotions and not issued harsh words when he was angry.